DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: As someone who has observed the social landscape evolve over the years, I find myself grappling with the shifting dynamics, particularly with the emergence of platforms like Tinder... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Before I being this long paragraph of ranting like George Carlin, there are a couple things I’d like to bring up. One is that I’m on a path in pursuing a career through college and... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have heard of these women who get to be the friend. I am never the friend.I’d like to be the friend. What are some traits of the “friend?”... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I (m/26, gay, in a queer-friendly major metropolitan city) have literally just left my date’s apartment and I don’t know what to do.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m in a weird spot right now. Currently I’m in a healthy and loving relationship and we’ve been together for a year. Recently I’ve been thinking I have feelings for a close friend... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I guess I need help in terms of making sense of a bad run. I’ve had a few first dates over the last 6 months and none of them have really gone the way I’ve wanted them to, some of ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I (female, American, lives in the US) have developed a flirty friendship with a guy (German, lives in Germany), whom I met at a conference about a year ago, when neither of us were... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My (23F) boyfriend (26) is a streamer on YouTube. He has almost 10k followers, and when he streams people love him. But sometimes I get jealous because even though I join his strea... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My first (and only) ever love and I met at 11 years old. We started off as best friends. At 12 he asked me to be his girlfriend twice whilst dancing slow at a school event, but I d... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Firstly, I want to say thank you. Your column has helped me think about my relationships and approach people much more confidently.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Ever since I started dating, I’ve mostly been with emotionally abusive men. I don’t actively look for them, in fact it’s quite the opposite. I try to go for the safest options and ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I feel at a loss now. Back in December, I had my longest relationship – well, not exactly relationship since we only went on 3 dates, but the longest romantic endeavor of my life. ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have been hanging out with this girl 7 times now with her doing the majority of the asking not me. She has canceled meet ups before quite a bit so it could have be more than 7 ti... more