DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years living together most that time. We both have been married and divorced. We were best friends in high school and remained frien... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m an independent woman, financially and otherwise. I have no desire to remarry and I’m not sure that I ever want to live with a man again. I also have a teenage son at home whom I... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: Should I date when I am essentially a sociopath? I know this sounds weird, but hear me out. I’m not exactly some cackling TV sociopath and I certainly don’t fit the description of t... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I am writing to you in desperate hopes of understanding the psychological reasons behind a difficult situation that my friend finds herself in.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: So a girl from the northern US just moved to the South about a month and a half ago and she is boarding her horse at my landlords barn. We exchanged numbers and started texting and ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: A bit of a different question here. I (32/m/he/him/his) just started using Hinge again after a year hiatus. I’ve only had my account for 9 days as of writing this letter. In that ti... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m a 29 year old man and after a prolonged and involuntary dry spell, I committed to turning my life around and getting a girlfriend this year. As part of that quest, I’ve been get... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m 55 and I’m pretty kinky, so when the man I am dating (age 63) said he was up for some untraditional sex, I was excited. I was daydreaming about our upcoming butt play activities... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I’m in a really sticky position right now. I met this guy at school and we hit it off. He’s got an amazing personality, but for me I’m not insanely attracted to his looks. We talk a... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: My situation is two-fold, but I’m only really looking for help with the latter part because I know you’ve addressed the first bit to death.... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I feel very hard on myself because I have not even dared to approach many women I barely knew for a one night stand. Should the time frame in which I hookup with someone determine ... more
DEAR DR. NERDLOVE: I have a specific question. I’m demisexual and sapiosexual, and I dated and then married the only person I’ve ever had sex with. I thought I was a “one-man woman,” that’s how I’ve ... more
Doctor’s Note: We’re going to be doing things a bit differently and feature both of today’s letters ahead of my response, for reasons that’ll be clear in a moment. So without further ado…... more