latestFebruary 17, 2023

Woman Confused by Beau's Secret Meetups

DEAR ABBY: I am a widow who has been in a long-term relationship with a widower. I am concerned about his relationship with his 27-year-old daughter. She wants time with him, excluding me, and he enco... more

February 12, 2023

Mother's Demands Cross the Line for Her Daughter

DEAR ABBY: My mother has just informed me that she expects me to send her and her new husband anniversary cards every year, and her husband Father's Day cards. I was 51 when Mama remarried, three year... more

February 12, 2023

Woman's Estrangement From Father Creates Second Rift

DEAR ABBY: After my mother died several years ago, my father's sometimes violent behavior flared up. A few years ago, I decided to stop spending time with him. My sister, who has received -- and may c... more

February 03, 2023

Former Friend Doesn't Know the Whole Story

DEAR ABBY: About 10 years ago, my longtime best friend, "Byron," abruptly cut me out of his life. I never clearly understood why. I reached out to him on and off for several years without success. The... more

February 02, 2023

Widow Finds Happiness With High School Sweetheart

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 37 years passed away four months ago. When we were first married, we were happy, but his drinking increased and he turned into a miserable, mean drunk. When I decided I'd fina... more

February 01, 2023

Friend Concerned About Man's Unhealthy Habits

DEAR ABBY: My friend is always sending me pics of food and beverages he thinks look appetizing. The problem is, the cut of steak he usually eats is cheap and unhealthy-looking. I try to tell him that ... more

January 30, 2023

Husband Can't Stand Hearing About Wife's Past

DEAR ABBY: Almost four years ago, I married a friend I had known since 1989. She was a widow, and we unexpectedly fell in love. The first three years, she spoke constantly about her late husband. I lo... more

January 29, 2023

Aging Father Wants Bigger Role in Grown Kids' Lives

DEAR ABBY: I am an active widower with five grown children. Although three of them live in the same city and two live in a city nearby, I haven't heard from or seen them as often over the past few yea... more

January 27, 2023

Grandma's Facebook Posts Strike a Nerve After Loss

DEAR ABBY: My daughter passed away nine years ago. She was almost 13. My mother never bothered to have a relationship with her when she was alive. But now, on every birthday and anniversary of her pas... more

January 24, 2023

Sibling of Deceased Brother Floored by Widow's Actions

DEAR ABBY: My brother passed away. He and my sister-in-law had a good marriage. A month after his funeral, my sister-in-law gave her kids their father's clothes, instructed them to go through them, ke... more

January 22, 2023

Boyfriend Hopes To Escape His Current Circumstances

DEAR ABBY: I have no family and few friends -- nobody close. My live-in girlfriend of two years and I argue constantly. We no longer share a bedroom, and I feel more like a roommate. I honestly feel I... more

January 17, 2023

Mother Has Kept Identity of Son's Father a Secret

DEAR ABBY: Thirty years ago, I had an affair with "Roger," a married man. We worked together and fell in love. At the time, Roger was married with three children. My husband and I were separated, and ... more

January 16, 2023

Flower Deliveries Trigger Many Feelings for Girlfriend

DEAR ABBY: This may seem strange to complain about because most people would love to get flowers. My boyfriend of three years sends a dozen red roses every couple of months to my workplace. It's not r... more

January 08, 2023

Grateful Family Continues To Honor Man's Sacrifices

DEAR ABBY: My dad had a stroke. My siblings and I (there are three of us) needed someone to care for him, since we all work full time. I asked my stepson, "Miles," who was living in Tennessee, if he c... more

January 05, 2023

Discovery of Family Secret Troubles Surviving Relative

DEAR ABBY: While doing some genealogy research during the pandemic, I came across my maternal grandfather's death certificate. I knew he had died at a fairly young age during the Depression. But I was... more

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